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The unfiltered reality of parenting from a screen half a world away. From navigating homesickness and missing the boys to the endless life admin, late-night scrolling, and the raw emotional toll of letting your babies chase big dreams. Written between the cracks of a full-time job, mostly — and the light of a phone screen at midnight, from Marcia's POV.

PJ KingFeatured · Culture
Marcia Te Ratana · 28 Oct 26 · 9 min
"A letter to Peter-Jared “PJ” King: coach, mentor, father figure and our mate, who showed up for every kid and led through service. Rest easy, King."

The King of our hearts. PJ King

(Left to right) Hunter training at Mercyhurst, Mum with her boys, Cooper departing NZ from Auckland airportFamily
Journey28 Sep

SEPTEMBER, SEPTEMBER…

"Big travel. Big feelings. Concussions. College Life. Admin drama. Unanswered calls. Jetlag. Growing boys. And a Mum (and..."

Mum Takes on Erie & Mercyhurst – The College Drop-Off & Break UpMarcia
Journey26 Aug

Mum Takes on Erie & Mercyhurst – The College Drop-Off & Break Up

"Dropping Hunter off at college wasn't just a trip; it was a full-blown, jet-lagged emotional breakup. Between navigating..."

Collegiate Netball Prem 2 - Winners of Auckland Senior A 2026Marcia
Journey18 Aug

Life on the Move: The Chaos, The Wins + NZ to India & Mercyhurst!

"Life on the Move: The Chaos, The Wins, and From NZ to MercyhurstJuly absolutely flew by in a..."

Te Ratana Family at church service in SamoaMarcia
Culture23 Jul

Why We Started TeRatana.Com - Character, Culture, and the Reality of the Grind

"Sending two teenage sons across the world to chase a pro dream splits your heart across two oceans...."

New Zealand passport and a Qantas boarding passMarcia
Journey23 Jul

Private Jets vs. Tight Budgets: Tips & Tricks to making it happen financially

"We haven't won Lotto. The raw financial reality of funding two international basketball dreams - refinance hacks, Wise..."

From Kmart Compression Bags to Upstate New York: How the Boys Ended Up in the USAMarcia
Journey23 Jul

From Kmart Compression Bags to Upstate New York: How the Boys Ended Up in the USA

"From karate belts and $15 Kmart compression bags to a top prep school in Upstate New York —..."

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Te Ratana, elsewhere.
In the media · Press
Sharpen Up PodcastPodcast · Ep 23 · 13 Aug 2023

Hunter & Cooper Te Ratana

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Te Reo o te Uru Regional NewsPūrongo 818 · 25 Apr 2025

Hoop Nation

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